Finding Mother
By Sherrill Elizondo I see myself as a young child, as though I’m viewing a scene in a movie about someone else. I walk into our living room and see a woman in a 1950s…
By Sherrill Elizondo I see myself as a young child, as though I’m viewing a scene in a movie about someone else. I walk into our living room and see a woman in a 1950s…
by Dani Joy I didn’t go looking for the truth about adoption.I wasn’t bitter, angry or regretful. I had spent the last decade clinging determinedly to the belief that it was ‘God’s will’ that my son…
By Janice Jones(Author of Dr. Beare’s Daughter: Growing Up Adopted, Adored, and Afraid) I was four-and-a-half months old in 1947 when I was adopted by Ralph and Lou Beare of Celina, Ohio. My new father…
by Kathleen KirsteinI am a late-discovery adoptee. I learned I was adopted at age forty-nine when I couldn’t get a passport because, on the application, I couldn’t explain why my birth certificate had been filed…
by Stacey Gatlin, AKA Board Member and founder of Yes We Adopt
By Hannah Andrews“If you want a Vegas wedding or the chance to file a restraining order, date an adopted person, or—really what I am saying: me.”(Anne Heffron in You Don’t Look Adopted) This month’s theme…
By Ruby Barnett The first time I saw my birth certificate, I was fourteen. It was a rainy February afternoon in North London, and I was rifling through Dad’s drawer of important documents while he…
by Hannah Andrews Our theme at AKA all month has been, “Identity and Belonging.” It could be my theme for the year. Maybe several years. Identity and belonging (or lack thereof) seep into every aspect…
by Janice JonesMy concept of family has always been different than most. I was adopted as an infant, and I knew I was adopted from a very early age. I was aware that while I…
by Lake CalderI wonder…do all parents think their kids are going to get married and have kids of their own to spend holidays with? Is that just part of the parental mentality? Most parents expect…